Course for Men and Women using Violence or Abuse in Intimate Relationships

SELF CONTROL not PARTNER CONTROL

The INPAVITE Assessment Test

Am I abusive or violent towards my partner?    If you have to ask yourself that question, the answer is, more than likely, yes.

The Assessment Test is specifically designed for MEN AND WOMEN who feel, they may be using abuse, in an intimate relationship.  

It is a useful tool for PROFESSIONALS whose clients may be using abuse towards an intimate partner


WHY CHOOSE THIS COURSE? 

Living in a society where power and control is used to preserve order - it is no surprise that power and control raises its head in our most intimate of relationships, to settle conflicts.  

In a good relationship, we enjoy our partner's uniqueness and differences. However, in an abusive relationship, instead of these differences opening up possibilities for a new way of being or understanding the world, they open up fears, vulnerabilities and anger. 

Using surveys, a quiz and questionnaires this Assessment Test takes a look at intimate partner abuse, offering students the opportunity to: 

  • clarify their understanding of intimate partner abuse,
  • explore its links to learnt behaviour,
  • test whether or not abuse is taking place in their own relationship; and
  • understand how emotional intelligence can promote the development of empathy, congruency and unconditional caring for others (traits missing  in abusive relationships).

The follow on course explores power and control in intimate relationships and looks at different ways of working through conflicts. Throughout the course students are supported with suggestions for further information, advice or practical help if needed.  

The INPAVITE Assessment Test is a unique online provision for anyone wanting to end abusive behaviour in a relationship or for professionals to refer clients for educational and preventative measures.  

 

Self Control NOT Partner Control

Domestic Abuse &
Domestic Abuse &
Intimate Partner Abuse Specialist

About the instructor

Thank you for visiting the INPAVITE website.   This site was created by a domestic abuse worker, with over 10 years experience of working with people who use abuse in their intimate relationships.  The assessment test and courses have been designed to support men and women who use abuse to resolve conflict with their partner.    

The Test and Course

On offer at INPAVITE is a no nonsense approach to the subject of intimate partner abuse. The assessment and courses can help you take steps towards a more respectful relationship.  Education is power... right!  So by educating you, this course places power in your hands, for you to make changes you need to your relationship - it's as simple as that.  

INPAVITE courses are educational and work from a person centred perspective to give you a personal experience and fuller understanding of what may be happening in your unique relationship.  You will learn about intimate partner abuse, power and control, the tactics that underpin this form of abuse and how to end it.  It is also important to look at how this form of abuse affects your partner and possibly other people in your life (e.g. children).  And don't forget, anyone using abuse in their relationship will also be affected by their own behaviour.  No one involved escapes the effects of abuse.

INPAVITE also has a website with information, advice and a discussion forum (see link at the top of this page).  Become a member and join in discussions about intimate partner abuse?  Feedback from students continually help with the development of new courses, ensuring INPAVITE provides a useful resource for people who may be abusing a partner.

The Benefits

The good news is that abusive behaviour is learnt.  So if we can learn to be abusive, we can develop new skills and 'unlearn the behaviours'... right!  

Here's the thing, if you come to understand that you are being abusive in a relationship, then you need to want to change.  No one can make the change for you.  You will need to treat this course with the utmost honesty when you answer the questions or you will only be wasting an opportunity to explore and avoid abuse in your relationship.    

That said, you wouldn't have read this far if you weren't serious about wanting to understand your relationship, right?  So let's begin the journey. Sign up below for INPAVITE 's Intimate Partner Self Assessment Test - to see if you are using abuse in your relationship. Begin your journey to understanding how you communicate in your relationship.

Hope you enjoy your learning and begin to make changes in your relationship, that bring you closer to your partner without the need for abuse.

SELF CONTROL not PARTNER CONTROL.

inpavite@zoho.com

What's Included?

1 Quiz
4 Surveys
8 Texts
11 Presentations
3.0

What others have been saying about this course:

ARE YOU CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP?

IS COMMUNICATION FEELING ABUSIVE?  

DO YOU FEEL YOUR PARTNER MAKES YOU ANGRY?

DO YOU FEEL YOUR PARTNER ALWAYS NEEDS TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO?

WANT TO LEARN ABOUT INTIMATE PARTNER ABUSE?


ENROL TODAY and DEVELOP YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF INTIMATE PARTNER ABUSE.    

TAKE THE INPAVITE 'PARTNER ABUSE TEST' TODAY -- SEE IF YOU ARE ABUSIVE TOWARDS AN INTIMATE PARTNER

YES PLEASE - sign me up!

COMING SOON - - - Power and Control In Intimate Relationships